Avoiding someone you dislike

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The human relationships are not easy and sometimes we must share with people who are not to our liking, but this does not mean that we are hypocrites or poorly educated, it is that although there is no empathy between you and that person is important to keep education. We can find someone to fall ill us in our work, in the family, at school or university and even among our group of closest friends, because there are always people coming and going and it may not be to our liking.

What to do in such cases? In LifeStyleQA are some tips for you to discover how to avoid someone you dislike without being heavy or rude.

Learning to mark distances

It is important to understand that to avoid someone you dislike does not mean that mistreat that person, that ignore or that offense. It simply refers to you to stop that person is linked with your personal life and your emotions, and that there is nothing better than knowing mark the distances.

Do not get involved with that person intimately even courtesy, do not tell private things or say anything incriminating in his presence, not personal opinions in front of him. Have him or her the courtesy strictness necessary, without going on a personal level.

Do not reveal your own discomfort

Some experts suggest that when someone we do not like is important never to reveal our discomfort with that person, as this may affect our image in front of our environment. This recommendation is especially important when the person is in our work or home environment.

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Therefore, the best thing is that when you have to speak it always does with a neutral face, a tone of voice that balance is not too serious and maintaining eye contact. Use gestures of displeasure, being too serious and sharp or avoid eye contact are some of the signs that we issue when someone we do not like, however timeliness would strive to behave in a manner more neutral and use self-control to get.

Put things in perspective

Why do you dislike that person? Is it something you can solve? Is there anything you can do to improve the situation?

Many times I have someone for small hobby situations unimportant for things that irritate us and we do not talk on time or because the personality of both not to collide. Whatever the reason, the fact is that you are the only person who can make the situation bother you less. Avoid giving importance to all the details that you are annoying and not spend your time thinking a lot about that person and try to make the situation just you care less.

We assure you that the less importance you give to everything but will affect you in your daily life.

Considers dialogue

Are you sure that the best solution is to avoid someone you dislike? There are cases where it is not necessary to foster dialogue to try an approach, for example, when it comes from someone who does not belong to our environment or we see only sporadically, but there are situations where these differences could lead to great discomfort.

It is important to consider dialogue as the person you dislike:

  • Works directly with you and your own team.
  • It is part of your family circle and see frequently.
  • It is part of your social circle and is frequently.
  • It was for a person close to you.

If you have been between unresolved conflicts in the pass and then it is best to sit down and talk them. Dialogue, apologize for what has been your responsibility, listen to others and lime rough to make the situation more bearable, this will significantly improve the environment and make things easier for everyone.

Avoid contact as much as possible

If not even consider the possibility of dialogue, or if after talking as usual, and then it is best to avoid as much any kind of close contact with that person. If you are part of a close environment, avoid being alone with that person so you do not see forced to have a conversation that you do not, try to always be in the company of others and if possible stay in another group to that person does not get irritate.

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Do not share your personal space with that person and have the minimum treatment required by the rules of courtesy, but not beyond. It is also important not to try to give foot to the conversation or to tell you intimate things; you can always try to quickly end the talks with them so that they will not more.

Do not shout from the rooftops that you dislike

Finally, and although someone really bad fall, it is important not to shout from the rooftops as could hurt the feelings of the other person. Sometimes we do not support anyone because both personalities clash, but maybe the other does not feel the same towards you or feel uncomfortable to know what you think about him or her.

Especially if this person is in your family or workplace, it is important to be discreet and secretive about your opinion and feelings, and you will cause the least damage.

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